Choosing an Urn: Things to Consider

American Kennel Club Cremation Urn
Many people have a bad habit of under-thinking a funeral. Everyone has a different idea of what they want to happen to them when they die, and people do not necessarily like their loved ones ideas. Do you find yourself in this situation? Did your loved on request cremation and it’s something that you’re against? Well then, chances are that you haven’t considered urns at all. Perhaps you’re just thinking about putting them in a plain old brass urn and be done with it. Just wait a second before you continue with that thought however. Do you want to be just thrown in a box, buried, and have some plain headstone thrown on top; with little to no consideration of whether you wanted this or not? Certainly not, and neither does your loved one. So before you buy an urn for a resting place, consider these few things.

Small Photo Cube Rotating Cremation Urn
What kind of person are you putting to rest? This is your loved one, and their final resting place should reflect the person they were. Maybe they were into history or antiques? Then you may want to consider one of the fine quality replicas on the market today. Urns are available in designs from many different cultures from around the world. From Greek, to Egyptian, to Irish; there’s bound to an urn that just ‘fits’ your loved one.
Factory pressed, or custom? Just as with headstones, you can get standard factory pressed urns that there are thousands of around the globe. Alternatively, you can have a custom designed urn made, something that tells a story about the person inside. You can have it adorned with poetry and pictures, or even have an ancient story mural put on it like ancient urns had. This will be where your loved one rests for all eternity, do you want it to be the same as a thousand others?
Sealed, or unsealed? In certain households, things just fall over. Cats, children, earthquakes, construction, moving; the list of possibilities just goes on and on. You don’t want your loved one’s remains all over the floor, so will the urn be at risk in your home? Also, some areas have laws requiring that urns containing human remains be sealed. Check with your funeral director.
These are just a few things to consider. Depending on your loved one there could be more, so really think about it before just trying to get it over with and back on with your life. You won’t regret it later if you do.
